Ask Jake and Melissa

This is our attempt at a "Dear Abby column" based on relationships. As we receive them, we'll give the questions our best thoughts and post responses on the blog. (All names, e-mail addresses, etc. will be kept confidential!) We won't promise to always have the perfect advice but we'll do our best.

If you have questions you'd like answered choose one of the ways below to get them to us:

1) Send along your questions to us at

2) Post them on our group page on Facebook or message either of us.

We're looking forward to your questions!

Jake and Melissa

Our goal of this blog is to share stories (both good and bad), thoughts and insights about our marriage and we would love for you to jump into the conversation.

The goal is to provide three things:
1) HOPE for struggling couples that they are not alone.
2) GROWTH in our marriages and our understanding of marriage.
3) ENCOURAGEMENT to keep loving your spouse unconditionally.